My husband makes me so mad do i have that right to be mad?

So tonight there was a tree branch rubbing up against our window in our bedroom and I couldn't figure oout what the noise was so he was outside smoking with his friends in the garage cuz he don't smoke in my house but I went to get him so he lookout the back door and says there ain't nothin out there leave me the **** alone so I said ok go look in the bedroom out the window cuz I knew I heard something and he goes its just a tree branch said you didn't have to be rude I was just scared I asked. Him isn't that why you're here to protect you're wife and three kids after I said that and cursed him out then he says sorry like really wtf so do I have a right to be mad right now or what I'm sick of him acting like I should take care of everything and do everything by myself I just had surgery on Tuesday and all he can do is complain to me telling me to quit bothering limbo come in the house over stupid stuff