I want nothing to do with my ex boyfriend. his behavior is totally unacceptable. why can't he take a hint?

Couple things here... First you sound young, but very smart. Second, you are pretty independent and wont put up with any guys shee-it, so thats great. You are on the right path. And when I read that princess bull shee it, I was upset FOR you, thinkin, this girl is right! But then I thought to be fair, do girls write stuff on a guy friends' wall that may be like "hey sweetie!" And could it be innocent??? And my answer is yes. I think that if you had told your bf and said very simply "You should only use endearing names with ME...." and then said "goodnight" and walked away from him, he would get the message loud & CLEAR... If you really do care about him, and truly believe he feels for you, then I would LET HIM talk to you on his next attempt. You have made your point, and he gets the point. Dont throw the "baby out with the bathwater" as they say. Also, it sure is RUDE to hear those cutesy names, but that is NOT cheating...Cheating will ruin peoples lives. This was rude and annoying by him, but it certainly won't ruin your life... Good luck! :)